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Fighting is inevitable between couples. Whether it is because of small things or big things, it may lead to disputes. After a fight, your girlfriend will go through a series of thoughts and mood swings.

1. Anger and disappointment

After a fight, a girlfriend’s first reaction is often anger and disappointment . She may feel hurt or left out, an emotion that can lead to resentment and anger. She may be thinking, "Why does he always do this to me? Doesn't he care about my feelings?" At this time, she needs some time to calm down her emotions.

2. Self-reflection

After calming down, your girlfriend will begin to reflect on whether her behavior and words during the quarrel were excessive. She might ask herself, "Am I too excited? Did I say the wrong thing?" She will try to understand the other person from her own perspective and look for her own problems. At this stage, the girlfriend needs time to reflect and grow.

3. Eager to communicate and solve problems

After a quarrel, the girlfriend will be eager to communicate and solve problems with the other party. She wants to be able to sit down, calmly talk about each other's perspectives and feelings, and find a mutual solution. She may take the initiative to suggest reconciliation to her boyfriend, or she may wait for her boyfriend to come to her. At this stage, the girlfriend needs each other's understanding and support.

4. Worry about the stability of the relationship

After a quarrel, a girlfriend may worry about whether the relationship between herself and her boyfriend is stable. She will think: "Will there be more and more conflicts between us? Can we go on?" This kind of worry is normal, but it also needs to be resolved through communication and understanding. Girlfriends hope to get reassurance and comfort from their boyfriends to stabilize their relationship.

5. Expectations for the future

Although the quarrel will bring some negative emotions to both parties, the girlfriend still has expectations for the future. She hopes to grow with her boyfriend, solve problems, and build a stronger relationship. She believes that through quarrels and communication, the relationship between the two will become deeper. This positive attitude and expectations for the future will become the driving force for both parties to work together.

After the quarrel, the girlfriend experienced a series of emotions and thoughts including anger and disappointment, self-reflection, desire to communicate and solve problems, worries about the stability of the relationship, and expectations for the future. During this process, the girlfriend needs time and space to calm down her emotions and solve the problem through communication and understanding. Only by working together can a healthy and stable relationship be established.