Dating can be a very romantic or embarrassing thing. People who are good at flirting can always chat and laugh with girls on the first date. People who are not good at flirting often force themselves to smile with girls. Chat awkwardly with each other.
Therefore, what determines the experience of the first date is often the skill of chatting with girls. Picking up girls is a craft. It is not that you look ugly or live a low life, but the things you do on the first date. The mask shown has already made girls lose interest!
1. Chatting
First date , whether you are forced to go on a blind date by your parents or take the initiative to meet your beloved girl for the first time, there is more or less a touch of "strangeness". How to deal with the "strangeness" on the first date is what many otakus and straight men encounter. difficulty.
People who are good at chatting and socializing must know how to make small talk. This is a Chinese-style communication habit. On the first date, you say some unnecessary nonsense to promote the two people to quickly get familiar with each other and adapt to each other. The way the other person speaks, the tone.
What, I want to laugh when I see you, I always think you are so cute!”
2. Chatting about home affairs
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Small talk can quickly eliminate the feeling of "strangeness" on the first date, but the mutual understanding is still in a vague state, so it is necessary to follow up by chatting about everyday things to establish mutual understanding between the two parties.
Although chatting about family matters has always been a way of chatting that has been criticized by many young people, it can quickly exchange information and is a very effective cognitive process for a first date.
Examples of negative teaching materials:
"Why do you work as a woman? Go home and do housework! You are not doing your job properly."
"I don't want you to think, I want me I feel. ”
3. Talk about laughter
Love and laughter always go together, if in the first If you make a girl smile during a date, the probability that the girl will fall in love with you will increase. Therefore, it is also a good idea to prepare some "jokes" in advance.
Telling some jokes appropriately and naturally on the first date will double the girl’s liking for you.
Example:
"Do you like yourself? What a coincidence, we like the same person!"
"When we first entered school, the whole class Introduction. A male classmate walked up to the podium: "My name is You Yong, and I love playing chess!" After saying that, he went down. The next person was a girl, who was shy.He walked onto the podium and introduced himself nervously: "I...my name is Xia Qi...I like swimming..."
