When talking about a dead otaku, most people should have this image in their mind: messy hair, not taking a shower for several days, all they can do is stay at home and play games when they have free time all day long, their clothes are all yellow, and they wear slippers. Going out to get takeout and express delivery... How can a girl like this kind of otaku? So how can an otaku change his image and attract the girls he likes?
1. Exercise to maintain body shape
If you are a fat person (just ignore it), then the first change you need to make is to exercise to lose weight and refuse junk food and being lazy. . You need to carry out planned exercises to make your body at least the same as that of normal people (you are not required to develop biceps or abdominal muscles) at least the same as the average of non-otakus of your age... I don't think it's difficult, as long as you have perseverance.
If you are a homebody but not fat, then you also need to go out and exercise, go to bed early and get up early, quit bad habits, and maintain your body shape. Maintaining sufficient energy is a necessary and most important step in my opinion.
2. Change your appearance when going out
Many otakus can't go out without going out, and even if they go out, they still have to cope with it. , I don’t pay attention to appearance. When I go out, I just take a comb and comb it, grab two pieces of clothes from the closet and go out. Even if you date a girl, you may just deal with it casually. If the girl gives you bad feedback, it's because he is superficial and doesn't see the interesting soul beneath his sloppy appearance.
In fact, a homeboy can be a homebody. No matter how you dress at home, you should pay attention to your image the moment you walk out of the door, or when you are video chatting with a girl. Your hairstyle should be fresh and tidy, wash your hair when it's time to wash it and don't make it greasy, your clothes and pants must fit well, and your whole person must make girls feel clean and tidy, then your first impression on girls won't be too bad.
3. Go out more
This is not to say that homebodies are bad, everyone has everyone. Depending on your living conditions and preferences, you can stay at home when you need to, but you should also be moderate. Don’t just play games and watch TV shows in your free time, and don’t stay at home all the time. Go out more and exercise more and make friends of the same age. Contact others more to develop your emotional intelligence and values ??(your values ??will change if you stay home for a long time). Find others who have the same interests and hobbies as you. Be careful not to say anything about yourself in front of people you have just met. It’s a joke in the nerd circle, it will embarrass others.
Therefore, in terms of character, otakus should also contact more people, make more friends, and talk about topics that are comfortable to everyone. As time goes by, you will become cheerful, and you will find that besides being a otaku, there are There are many interesting things.
For exampleIf you are an otaku, after you make the above changes, you will find that the girl who used to be dismissive of you will also start to pay attention to you and will reply to your chats. If you try to date her, she will also start to ask you. If you agree to the invitation, you will be far away from being single.
