It is easy to start a relationship, but it is not so easy to maintain a relationship for a long time. The real difficulty in falling in love is often not how to start, but how to last. So how can a relationship last long?

How to fall in love for a long time?

1. Pay attention to the power of bear hugs

Women’s innermost emotional needs in the relationship between the sexes Yes - companionship and dependence.

This is "why many women have a common characteristic - they always want boys to hug themselves." Such behavior does not actually mean that she is clingy, but that women subconsciously desire dependence and intimate physical contact.

Intimate behaviors such as hugging, caressing, and snuggling can greatly stimulate the secretion of oxytocin in women, thereby allowing women to relieve the stress and anxiety in life and release oxytocin in intimate relationships. The gentle, coquettish side of women.

A little tip on the relationship between the sexes:

If you want a girl to love you more and more, you might as well try to cuddle up quietly in bed for 3 minutes every day. Go to sleep.

This can quickly increase the secretion level of oxytocin in girls, and at the same time suppress the potential anxiety of women. She will naturally be willing to invest more energy and love in the relationship.

If your girlfriend often likes to complain, gossip, and complain, as a boy, you might as well think about it: How long has it been since you gave her a good bear hug?

Because frequent complaints and unexplained anger actually come from the excessive secretion of male hormones in women, which externalizes anxious and irritable love behaviors.

In fact, this explains "why women can't be messed with when they are pregnant", because more male hormones are secreted during menstruation. So hug her more, which is more effective than letting her drink more brown sugar water.

2. Learn to guide emotions

In fact, the root causes of many problems between men and women come from—— Differences in thinking in communication.

Men focus on rational logic, while women focus on emotional attitudes. In other words, boys focus on solving problems when communicating, but girls focus on comfort during communication.

Why do girls always say to boys "Why don't you understand me at all?" When communicating, a large part of the reason is actually that boys do not grasp the emotional context of women's communication.

To give a very simple example: when a girl starts to complain to you, "That XXX was really annoying today and secretly put on my shoes." So as a boyfriend, how should you reply to the girl? of confiding.

Most boys’ first reaction is often “Of course I want to comfort her and advise her to be more generous and open-minded. "But if you answer like this, the girl will probably roll her eyes and say to you, "You don't understand me at all." ”

So how should men be the guides of women’s emotions? I’ll teach you a simple and easy-to-understand tip:

·When she is happy, you will be happy. When she complains, you will be happy. Just scold her along with her

3. Learn to be yourself

What makes your partner treat you well? Is your affection declining rapidly?

Let me put it cruelly: Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, when you regard love as your whole world, this is often the time when your partner's favorability towards you decreases the fastest. < /p>

Why do we often say: Love is essentially a game between the sexes. The reason is very simple. When a person gives too much in love, what he gets in return is likely to be his partner. You are proud of your favor.

If you give 7 points in a relationship, your partner may only give you 3 points in return. The increase in your favor is likely to be only 0 points.

The best gesture in love is: use 5 points to release love, and use 5 points to keep it to yourself.

Don’t treat love as a waste. It is all you have, and your passion and love should still be reserved for your career, friendship, family, and achieving a better self. There are many things in this world that are worthy of your embrace, and love is not the only one among them. >