There is something missing after a quarrel with my girlfriend
1. The cold feeling of strangeness
When we quarrel with our girlfriend, there is always a cold feeling of strangeness in our hearts. The two people who were once so close seemed to have become strangers and alienated during the quarrel. We no longer talk to each other and share our joys and sorrows as before, but we keep a distance from each other.
This strangeness makes us feel lost and alone. We long to regain intimacy with our girlfriends but don’t know how to do it. We started to think, what exactly are we missing after we had a fight with our girlfriend?
2. Breakdown of trust
During the quarrel, we may say some words that hurt the other party, or even do some behaviors that hurt the other party. These words and actions undermine the trust between us.
Trust is an important cornerstone of maintaining a relationship. When trust is broken, we feel disconnected and uncomfortable with each other. We begin to doubt whether the other party still treats us sincerely and will continue to support and understand us.
A breakdown in trust leaves us feeling helpless and confused. We long to restore trust but don’t know how to mend this broken relationship.
3. Breakdown in communication
Quarrels are often caused by poor communication. We may not be expressing our thoughts and emotions properly and not truly listening to the other person. This leads to misunderstandings and conflicts between each other.
Communication is the key to solving problems and resolving conflicts. When communication breaks down, we are unable to communicate and understand each other effectively. We began to get sucked into a spiral of bickering and it became increasingly difficult to find common solutions.
The breakdown in communication leaves us confused and helpless. We long to reestablish good communication, but don’t know how.
4. Lack of love
During a quarrel, we tend to ignore the other person’s feelings and need. We only focus on defending ourselves and fighting for our rights, but ignore the existence and value of the other party.
Love is the driving force that maintains a relationship. When love is lacking, we feel cold and distant from each other. We begin to doubt whether the other person still treats us sincerely and will still pay for us.
The lack of love makes us feel empty and powerless. We long to rekindle the flame of love, but we don’t know how to express it and deliver it.
5. Rebuilding the relationship with your girlfriend
After a fight with your girlfriend, we need to work hard to rebuild the relationship with her. First, we need to be honest about our fault in the argument and apologize to her. At the same time, we must also listen to her thoughts and feelings and respect her opinions.
Secondly, we need to strengthen communication,Learn to express your thoughts and emotions effectively and truly listen to the other person. Through good communication, we can solve problems, resolve conflicts, and find common solutions.
The most important thing is to rekindle the love and express our care and love to our girlfriends. We can use actions to prove our sincerity, such as giving her a warm hug, cooking her a delicious dinner, or accompanying her to a romantic movie.
By working hard to rebuild our relationship with our girlfriends, we can repair the damage caused by the fight and restore emotional intimacy and harmony. We must cherish this relationship, nourish it with love and tolerance, and make it stronger and more lasting.
