Quarrels are inevitable between lovers, but as boyfriends, we should learn to coax our girlfriends and resolve conflicts. Here are some things you can do during an argument.
1. Calm down
When an argument escalates, the first thing to do is to calm down. Don't let your emotions control your actions, but keep a cool head. This way you can handle the problem better.
2. Listen to her voice
During a quarrel, your girlfriend may express her dissatisfaction and Wronged. As boyfriends, we should listen patiently to her and understand her feelings. Don't interrupt her, but give her enough space to vent.
3. Apologize and admit your mistake
If we are indeed at fault, we should apologize and admit our mistake promptly. Apologize sincerely to your girlfriend and say you will correct your mistake. This can make our girlfriend feel our sincerity and importance to her.
4. Provide comfort and support
During a quarrel, your girlfriend may feel sad and lost. As boyfriends, we should give her comfort and support. You can hug her gently, tell her everything will be okay, and that you will always be by her side.
5. Propose solutions
Quarrels are not just about venting emotions, but more importantly about solving problems. When my girlfriend calms down a bit, we can come up with some solutions and work together to find a solution to the problem. This can make our girlfriend feel that we attach great importance to the problem and are determined to solve it.
6. Give time and space
Sometimes, after a fight, your girlfriend may need some time and space to calm down and think. As boyfriends, we should give her enough time and space and not pester or ask too much. Wait for the right time before communicating.
7. Give a small gift
After a quarrel, you can give a small gift to express your feelings. My own apology and concern. This small gift can be something your girlfriend likes, or it can be a warm letter. This will allow our girlfriends to feel our attentiveness and care.
8. Cook a delicious meal
There is a saying that goes, “A lover’s belly can hold a boat.” After a fight, you can cook a delicious meal to comfort your girlfriend. A candlelight dinner or her favorite specialties are good options. Through food, conflicts can be resolved and feelings enhanced.
9. Accompany her to do things she likes
After a quarrel, you can take the initiative to accompany your girlfriend to do things she likes. You can go to the movies, go shopping, take a walk, etc. Through companionship and care, we can make our girlfriend feel that we value and care for her.
10. Express love
Finally, after a quarrel, express your love for your girlfriend promptly. You can say sincere words such as "I love you" and "I care about you". This can make our girlfriend feel our deep affection for her.
When coaxing a girlfriend during a quarrel, we should calm down, listen to her, apologize and admit our mistakes, provide comfort and support, propose solutions, give time and space, send small gifts, and make a meal Good food, accompany her to do things she likes, and express love. Through these actions, we can resolve conflicts and enhance feelings.
