At the beginning of marriage, everyone moves forward with the beautiful expectation of growing old together with their lover. However, not every relationship has a beginning and an end.

Someone once said: "Marriage is the grave of love." This statement is a bit extreme, but it is the current situation of many couples.

What was obviously a life for two people turned into a carnival for one person; what was obviously a joy between you and me, turned into a cold-eyed confrontation; it was clearly agreed at the beginning to share joys and sorrows, The result is that when disaster strikes, they all fly away.

As the saying goes: "A slap in the face can't make a sound." Naturally, the end of a marriage cannot be separated from the acquiescence of both parties. As the most sensitive party in a marriage, women will definitely have these symptoms if they really reach the stage of divorce.

1. The passion cools down and no longer revolves around you

If a woman loves you, Then you are everything to her; but if she doesn't love you anymore, even looking at you will make her eyes dirty.

You must know that the most deadly thing about love is not the persistence when each other is happy, but the desire to give up after being hurt by the other party.

For a woman, when she is willing to stay with you, she is just coveting your meticulous care and consideration for her.

But someone has said that you can covet anything from a man, but you cannot covet his kindness to you.

Because if you think that something else is with him, when the day comes that he doesn’t love you anymore, you will at least still have the thing you are greedy for. But if you choose the latter, you will really have nothing when he abandons you.

Therefore, when a woman is completely disappointed with a man in marriage, her most obvious manifestation is to turn a blind eye to you.

She used to be passionate about you just because you valued her equally. But now your indifference and calling have worn out her patience.

She has seen through your indifference, and naturally she will not allow herself to be stupid anymore.

From now on, you will no longer be the center of her world, and she will no longer stupidly revolve around you. Just like Ma Yili said, I can choose you, or I can replace you.

2. Start to have your own circle of friends and pay attention to your own dress

If a person is determined Change must start with the circle you live in and your unkempt self.

After all, she had willingly abandoned her circle for you. And now that she has the idea of ????divorce, she naturally has to pick up her former free and easy self.

Not only that, she will also change from the yellow-faced woman you see and feel upset all day long to the beautiful and colorful woman she used to be.Miss. Because, before she fell in love with you, she was such a lovable girl.

So, if your wife is like you and has endless social activities and endless meetings, then you have to understand that it is not because she is really so busy at work, nor is it because of her As much as her friends cling to her, she just doesn’t want to go home and see you.

When your wife starts to be indifferent to you and starts to spend time dressing up, you should have the awareness that she wants to leave you.

Because, only after a woman's heart is freed up can she be able to hold a larger world and be willing to open her eyes to see the prosperity of the world.

After all, to separate you from her heart, you must be replaced with fresh blood, so that she can let go of the past and move forward bravely.

3. I draw a clear line with you in everything and just want to escape from you as soon as possible.

A woman who wants to divorce you will want to draw a clear line with you most. At this time, because of the accumulated disappointment and hurt caused by you, she just wants to expel you from her world as soon as possible.

Women who have seen too many marriages, their common thoughts are: "I have given my husband countless opportunities, thinking that he will grow up one day, but the ending is over and over again. Repeating the same mistakes over and over again."

Finally, when I couldn't hold on anymore, I no longer believed in the man's decision to change his past.

Africa is the place where domestic violence is the most serious in the world, but it also has the lowest divorce rate in the world. This is not because women here are born to be abused, but because they have to suffer for their livelihood and family.

"The Slap" is a film in India that discusses whether men should be violent domestically. It also makes many men begin to reflect on whether their words and deeds towards their wives are reasonable.

At a family gathering, the husband argued with his boss because he was dissatisfied with his decision. The wife who was beside her kindly went up to persuade her, but was slapped fiercely by her husband.

This slap also completely woke up my wife. She gave up her dream of dancing for this marriage, but what she got in exchange was that her husband did not cherish her.

In the days that followed, not only did her husband not apologize to her, but he acted as if nothing had happened.

The wife felt aggrieved and angry, but even under such circumstances, everyone advised her to bow to her husband, saying it was for the sake of the family.

But the heroine is not a person who compromises and cannot wait for her husband's apology, so she resolutely returns to her parents' home. Even if she later found out that she was pregnant with a child, she would divorce her husband.

When women look at men, they always want an attitude. If a man can't admit his mistakes to his wife, then it's okay not to have such a man.

So,Once disappointed, the wife firmly decided to divorce. At this time, even if her husband regretted it, he could no longer bring her heart back. She just wanted to leave him.

No one can become fat in one bite. The last thing that kills a woman’s heart is that a man always talks but does not do anything, making mistakes again and again. When a woman gives up, even ten cows can't bring her back.

As long as you don’t mess with a woman, once you touch her bottom line, she will definitely kick you out without looking back.

As the saying goes, everything thrives when the family is in harmony. Family harmony requires not only the virtuousness and tolerance of the wife, but also the husband must know how to be considerate and loving towards his wife.

You must understand that three feet of ice does not freeze in one day. If you hadn't challenged her patience again and again, how could she be willing to leave you?

Therefore, when your wife is cold to you, you should reflect on whether you have done something wrong; when your wife is willing to dress up for others, you should be aware of the danger coming.

But if you want your wife to never leave you, as a husband, you must first be obligated and considerate to your wife.