For many couples, from lovers to lovers, life is dull without the passion of the past, which leads to many problems that did not exist before, making their lives very unhappy, and then they don’t know what to do. Let’s take a look at the reasons for disharmony in married life!
1. Feeling uneasy about married life
After all, both people have left After leaving the original family and forming a family, it was more or less uncomfortable. Before getting married, at least their parents were around to "point and point". Suddenly no one is around to interfere. They are still not used to it.
In the past, whenever I was tired from work, there would be a hot meal waiting for me when I got home, which made me feel reassured. But now both of them are busy with their work and go home. There are no scenes from the past, and I need to drag my tired body and prepare food for two people, which inevitably brings a lot of negative emotions.
2. Not used to living together
From independent daily life to mutual daily life, the couple initially struggled with their lifestyle, frugal family tradition, and sex. , as well as each other's work, ideas, temperament, interests, physical and mental health and many other aspects are not suitable.
There is a whole process of mutual integration and mutual adjustment. To realize this entire process, couples must abandon their self-centered living habits.
3. Know each other well after marriage
When you are in love, you usually Rationalize, idolize, ignore or eliminate the other person's shortcomings and flaws. Men regard women's arrogance as beauty, and women regard men's arrogance as strength.
After marriage, each other's shortcomings are exposed, and the psychological state will become cold. In addition, when you are in love, you should pay attention to hiding your shortcomings and giving the other person an aesthetic illusion. Once you get married, you can no longer control yourself.
As for the reasons why marriage is unsatisfactory, married life is probably the above three reasons, so of course it is necessary to prescribe the right medicine to solve your previous problems. Escape is impossible. Trust me, find a time to talk to two people about these issues and your own opinions, and then everyone takes a step back. You will find that living a good life is not that difficult.
