It is very embarrassing for a boy to ask a girl out and be rejected, but how to deal with this situation? This article will give suggestions from many aspects.
1. Don’t blame yourself too much
When you are rejected by a girl, don’t blame yourself too much. Everyone has their own preferences and choices. Maybe she is not your cup of tea. This does not mean that you are not attractive or good enough.
2. Be polite
No matter how a girl responds to your invitation, be polite. If she declines your invitation, you can say, "It's okay, I understand. Thank you for taking the time to reply to me." This will express your sincerity and avoid embarrassment.
3. Don’t pester
If a girl has made it clear that she doesn’t want to date you, then don’t pester her. Persistent pursuit will only turn her off more and may destroy your friendship.
4. Continue to be friends
Even if a girl rejects your invitation, don’t give up dating her because of this. You can continue to be friends and share every detail of your life together. Maybe one day in the future, she will have new feelings for you.
5. Don’t give up
Being rejected by a girl doesn’t mean you can never be with her. You can make her interested in you again by improving your charm and self-confidence. However, this requires time and effort.
When a boy asks a girl out and is rejected, don't blame yourself too much, stay polite, don't pester, continue to be friends, and don't give up. Only in this way can this embarrassing situation be better handled and leave opportunities for future development.