I believe that when you meet girls online, you don’t just want to chat, but you want to have some stories with each other. The most important thing for a story to happen is to invite to meet, so how can you chat to ask out a girl you met online?
1. Interesting interaction
Good-looking skins are all the same, but interesting souls are unique. Humor, novelty, and fun are the qualities that most attract girls. Some brothers are too straight and like to chat with girls about work and study. In fact, women are not interested in you. It's better to talk to her about your experience, your life, and provide more interesting and fun emotions to make her like you more and more.
For example, I just saw a girl who looked like you. I was so excited that she bumped into a telegraph pole and fell in love with me. I am the one riding a white horse to kiss you to wake you up. She is so handsome and she just got home. What are you doing?
2. Sufficient sense of security
Girls who meet through online chats generally lack a sense of security because both parties do not know each other. No social relationships exist. Therefore, if you want to successfully invite girls you met online, you must establish enough sense of security. Don't talk to strangers, this is the rule you have been taught since childhood.
To make girls feel safe, we need to make her feel that we are real people living in reality. Sharing your schedule, your information, your hobbies, and your three views can help quickly cultivate a sense of trust and security between both parties.
3. Vague invitation
Once you have attraction and a sufficient sense of security, you can consider inviting girls. It should be noted that you must not set a date too hard at the beginning, as the possibility of being rejected is too high. On the one hand, the invitation requires the girl to be sufficiently interested in you, and on the other hand, it also requires the other party to be able to attend the date.
Before formally confirming the invitation, you can try to make a vague invitation first to test the girl's interest in general. If the other party is interested, we will further confirm; if the other party is not interested, we will leave it alone.
For example, your friend has opened a new hot pot restaurant and I will take you to try it another day; you are also very hardworking, so you take the time to make an appointment for drinks together; you are an interesting girl, and when you are free and I am free, we can go out together. clatter.
4. Confirm the invitation
In order to increase the success rate of the invitation as much as possible, you need to confirm the girl’s Logistics information to develop a more suitable invitation time and location.
The so-called logistics information refers to the geographical location of both parties, the girl’s work and rest time, whether there is access control, when to take vacation, etc. With this information, we can make a more reasonable invitation plan, such as where is more suitable to meet and what timeWhich clock is more suitable, whether late-night snacks are allowed, general arrangements for date items, etc.
Once you have the logistics information, you can further try to finalize a specific invitation. For example, let’s go for a walk together tomorrow and take you to eat my favorite barbecue. If the girl is willing and the logistics situation allows, we can further finalize it; if the girl's logistics does not allow it, then we can try to change a more suitable time. For example, if you are not free tomorrow, what are your plans for the weekend?
