The Chinese Valentine's Day is a very special day. Many boys will choose to have a romantic date with the girl they like on this day. When asking a girl out on Chinese Valentine's Day, should she make an appointment in advance or do it at that time?
Generally speaking, if you want to ask a girl out, whether it is Chinese Valentine's Day or not, boys need to invite her in advance. Not to mention you are a suitor, even if you are a good friend, you must consider the following points.
1. The girl’s status that day
Does the girl want to come out or is it inconvenient for her to come out?
If you make an appointment in advance, at least the other party can be mentally prepared. If the other party agrees to you, then even if he comes to visit you or has a cold, because he has already agreed to you, he will come out to accept the appointment. .
2. Do girls have time to prepare?
Girls are different from boys. They don’t just take a shower and go out. They need to prepare a lot of things. If the appointment is on the Chinese Valentine’s Day, it is likely that they will not be able to get ready because they don’t have it. Be prepared, and the time for your date becomes very tight, and she may even decline the invitation because she is too late to prepare.
3. Girls’ mentality
If you date a girl on Chinese Valentine’s Day, it is likely that she will feel You don't think about everything and do things on a whim, which greatly reduces your impression and then refuses your invitation.
Even on a romantic day like Chinese Valentine’s Day, if you don’t make an appointment in advance, there are many uncertain factors. After all, you may make an appointment with a girl on Chinese Valentine’s Day, and the girl happens to have something to do that day and can’t leave, or it may be that day She has already made an appointment with her best friend.
Based on the above, if you want to ask a girl out on Chinese Valentine's Day, even if you are sure that the other party will agree to your invitation, you must make it 1-2 days in advance. Telling them not only shows how seriously you take the date, but also gives the other person time to prepare.
