If you want to ask a girl out, you must first make yourself meet the other party's expectations, and then have a reasonable reason. These two points require us to pave the way in the early stage of the chat. So what should you do specifically? Let me share with you some examples of dating girls to chat.

1. Use travel topics to make "alternative" invitations

Topic keywords thrown out: daydream. Traveling is something that girls yearn for very much. Her heart is full of freedom, longing and beauty.

Error display:

Male: Which place is your favorite?

Female: Shanghai.

Male: Why?

Female: Rich

We can see that in this chat, the girls’ answers were very bland, without any waves. . She just wants to reply to you and doesn't give you any chance to continue the topic.

Being direct and forthright will not arouse a girl’s interest at all.

Correct case:

Male: Dali, Yunnan. I have always heard a story. I thought about it for a long time and decided to go and see it.

Girl: What story? (Or: I also like Yunnan.)

Such a chat throws out two keywords: 1 story 2 travel location

If girls are attracted by stories, they can make up an interesting fairy tale; if girls are attracted by places, they can start a common topic about travel.

Actual case:

In this case, we used a wave of high-value emotional output to bring the relationship closer to the girls, and at the same time, we implemented framework implantation and issued strong invitations.

2. Use the topic of food to "tempt" invitations

In the hearts of girls, most of them have one thing in common, that is, "the only thing you can't live up to is food." So if you want to invite a girl to dinner, if you move to another place today, you have to put a lot of effort into the first round of delicious food.

It is not a simple invitation like "I know if there is a delicious place to go to", "Are you hungry?", "Let's eat together", this kind of casual invitation. Girls will quickly find excuses to talk about such a topic.

Error case:

There is no temptation in chatting. Even if you make an appointment in advance, girls will still let it go. Dove power.

Correct method:

Propose food temptations tactfully. Even if the girl has eaten, there is still room for redemption.

Example: Today my friend sent me a photo. I couldn’t bear it. It looked delicious/Wanda opened a new store and there was a long queue. I had already taken my number and it was almost my turn... …

The sudden temptation of food is often a fatal "blow" to a girl. If she is hungry, don't say much and will follow you in a minute.

Actual case:

Sometimes the temptation of delicious food is more direct than the temptation of material things. After seeing the delicious food, girls will become interested and willing to get to know you, then you will have the opportunity to chat. At this time, if you use a provocative method, it will be very easy to invite them out.

3. Use daily topics to make "passionate" invitations

Do you find it boring to chat with girls on the mobile phone? How can you directly invite girls for a walk by the river, shopping in the mall, or a movie through the screen? Watching or continuing the passion in the bar?

After a busy day, the girl drags her tired body, but has a restless heart, and wants to find someone to talk to, or to vent. one time.

At this time, you must seize the opportunity, and girls will tilt their emotions towards you.

Actual case: