In interpersonal communication, sometimes we encounter such a situation: the other party treats us enthusiastically, but we seem cold; or we are not enthusiastic enough about the other party, but she shows a strong interest in us. This article will explore this situation from two perspectives and provide some ways to deal with it.

1. Girls are enthusiastic and he is cold

1. Cause analysis

Girls may It's because I like him that I act particularly enthusiastic. And he may not be aware of the girl's feelings, or he may not be too interested in her at all.

2. Coping methods

If he also has a crush on a girl, he can try to take the initiative to contact her to increase mutual understanding. If he doesn't want to continue the relationship, he needs to express his attitude appropriately to avoid giving girls hope.

2. Girls are indifferent to his enthusiasm

3. Cause analysis

Girls may be shy or protective of themselves, so they behave coldly. And he may be more enthusiastic because he is attracted to girls.

4. Coping methods

If a girl is really not interested in him, she needs to express her attitude appropriately to avoid giving him hope. If a girl likes him but is shy or protective, she can try to contact him proactively to increase mutual understanding.

In interpersonal communication, enthusiasm and indifference are both normal behaviors. We need to analyze the reasons according to the specific situation and adopt corresponding response methods. At the same time, when dealing with this situation, we also need to pay attention to respecting each other's feelings and avoid hurting others.